Okay, maybe you’re not so picky about what kind of girl you want. Maybe you just miss the company of females in general and want to love as many women as possible before you die. Nothing wrong with that, it worked for Warren Beatty. On the other hand, maybe you just want to meet a greater population of women so you can be sure of what you really want in a long-term relationship. This is smart, because often times we misdiagnose ourselves and don’t know what we really want until we’re looking at her right in the face. Now is not the time to think of love or other complications. Now is the time to meet women, women, more women and a few hot girls along the way!
What can you do to attract more girls? Here are some tips that may help you, and believe it or not, most of these «tricks» are non-verbal cues. It should go without saying that in order to appeal to women on a purely physical level, you must take care of yourself. Shower, apply good-smelling products and dress like you’re a movie star. You’re already looking more attractive than those dirty cowboys who just barely put on a shirt and pants before heading out the door.
Now that you’re at least moderately attractive in form (and already in advantage if you look young and successful) it’s time to focus on the most important dynamic in flirting: eye contact. Women always notice a man’s eyes, as these are a window to the soul, and one of the best tools you will ever have in your sexual repertoire. Do not be afraid of eye contact. As soon as you enter a room, make eye contact with all of the girls you think are cute. Don’t hesitate or seem only half-interested. Look into her eyes—don’t stare at her breasts or legs. You’re not ordering chicken, dude! You’re trying to make an emotional connection.
Now you do have to walk a fine line in between happy go lucky fool and leering psychopath. You want to smile in the spirit of interest and friendliness. Don’t alarm the poor girl, but try and keep a sexy, cool stare. You’re communicating thoughts in this time. You’re communicating that you find her attractive and that you’re a hot guy interested in a hot girl. What’s great about keeping eye contact is that you will know immediately if there is some compatibility in the air. An interested woman will return your eye contact, perhaps turning away at first, but then returning to your glance.
Eye contact is the most important part of flirting, but it’s by no means the last step. Most women will not be aggressive and walk right up to you just because she finds you attractive. (Women are browbeaten by society to be ladylike) You have to approach her and convey confidence in the way you walk and talk. Even if you can’t feign Vin Diesel-like machismo, she will still be impressed that you took a chance and approached her. Stay observant and look for any signs of preening (like touching her hair or adjusting her clothes) that indicate she’s still interested.
Don’t get so carried away in playing the role of James Bond that you forget to come across as a friendly and non-threatening guy. Women like confidence but not senseless aggression. The most important lesson to learn here is to always go towards what you want, not recoil. Successful men attract women because they show interest in body language and in direct communication. Timid men avoid conversation and hide from any undue attention. Is it any surprise these are the kind of guys who have trouble meeting women? Not you though…now you know how to attract all sorts of women and filter through them like the superstar you are. Have fun with that, yeah?