You look in the mirror and ask yourself why you don’t have any luck with the ladies. You are fairly good looking, you can afford to take a woman someplace expensive at least twice a month. Most importantly, you are a nice guy. Why oh why do you need to have tips on how to attract women.
It goes without saying that you know the proper uses for toothpaste, nail clippers and deodorant soap. Your table manners are more than adequate. You live in a fun bachelor’s pad and not with your parents. Your profession is one that is at least average if not above.
You buy your clothes to fit the current styles and go to the gym regularly. You don’t dress up too much or wear shabby chic at the wrong time. You express your individuality in you style of clothing. You feel at home in your clothes and confident that they fit you well.
Do you know what a woman sees when she meets you? Are you too pushy or too laid back? You don’t want to make her feel as if you plan to take over her whole life from the first date on. But, don’t make her feel you are totally disinterested either. Find some common interests to chat with her about. Ask her opinion. Share yours but not to the point of arguing with her. She will keep talking as long as you show interest.
Now for some tips on how to make women want to seduce YOU!
Showing indifference by being late, acting as if she isn’t important as if you are the prize of the century doesn’t work with a quality woman. One who will tolerate that behavior isn’t worth having unless you like feeling superior. If you have the confident nature of a real man, you don’t need to act or put yourself in a superior position to be desirable.
He can allow himself to seem desirable cause he is personable and fun to talk with. Yes, maybe being totally hot does come into play on that first date.
It’s still acceptable to do those little things that used to be expected as a part of good manners. Open her door, let her walk in first. Nobody expects you to throw down your $400 suit coat in a puddle but it would be cool to carry her over the puddle just for laughs.
It’s always a good idea to be lighthearted and laugh at her jokes. If you have a story that hilariously ridicules your last girlfriend, save it for another time. Don’t let your grudge at being dumped show. It’s just unkind to try to get revenge by laughing at an old girlfriend. So you were dumped, it happens to everyone.
A girl who is lacking in self confidence might respond favorably to this and feel inferior because she’s been dumped repeatedly. Do you want a girl who wants you cause she doesn’t think anyone else will be interested in her. You will have more fun with a confident girl.
Make the woman want you but at her own pace. Rushing the love thing by talking marriage and family on the first or second date is just weird. Let her see you find her attractive, go ahead and kiss on the first date. Don’t make her visualize a lovely home and happily ever after there with you until, oh at least the third date. Fifth will be better.